In God's eyes, and therefore in reality, there are only two ways to live, two paths, one leading to life, the other to death. In Proverbs, the two paths are traveled by two women, each to her own way. One is Wisdom, and she is a lady; "Keep hold of instruction; do not let go; guard her, for she is your life" (Psalm 4:13). The other, not a lady, is "the evil woman, the smooth tongue of the adulteress. Her feet go down to death" (Proverbs 6:24; 5:5). It is we who seek shades of grey between, who want to keep a woman in each hand, but God says choose.
One woman is enticing and easy, "for the lips of a forbidden woman drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil" (Proverbs 5:3). The pleasures are immediate, the dangers delayed, the temptation is terrible. "Do not let her capture you with her eyelashes" (Proverbs 6:25). In contrast, the lady Wisdom must be pursued. You must want to get her and work to get her; she doesn't come easy. Proverbs 4:7 makes me laugh, "The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom." It sounds like Steve Martin explaining how to become a millionaire, "First, get a million dollars." It means, however, to become wise you must want to become wise. You must choose to become wise, choose one woman over the other, because you must choose a path, and each woman has her own path. You must be willing to let go of that pleasingly available Wicked Woman of the moment and set your sights down the road.
God, forgive me the desires of the moment, of the immediate, of the attractive, of the available. Strengthen and deepen my desires, to love what is eternal and good, what never loses her beauty, what bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things, what never ends.
Give me wisdom, Heavenly Father. I seek it and I will work for it. I will dig deep in Your Word and let it dig deep in me. I love the path of wisdom, the path of life, the path that leads to Your Kingdom forever.